The Weights Don’t Get Lighter — You Get Stronger

A friend recently asked me if lifting dumbbells, kettlebells, and resistance bands is easy because, in my workout videos, it looks effortless. The truth is, it isn’t easy at all. Even lifting a pair of 3kg dumbbells (6kg in total) while doing lunges, squats, shoulder presses, or arm raises takes a surprising amount of effort….

My High Protein Breakfast

My breakfast today. 😊 Two soft-boiled eggs topped with crispy meat floss, chickpeas with melted butter, and half a steamed sweet potato with grass-fed butter. A simple breakfast that’s high in protein, packed with nutrients, and keeps me feeling full and satisfied for longer. Lately, I’ve been trying to cut back on bread, refined carbs,…

A Heartwarming Evening of Reconnecting

Last night, my parents and I attended a fundraising dinner organised by the Living Faith Methodist Church, Ipoh, thanks to three complimentary tickets from one of Mum’s former students. Mum was only 18 when she taught this lovely lady, who was just 10 years old at the time. More than six decades later, they’ve remained…

Strength Training At 53, With My 80-YO Mum

My 80-year-old mum has suffered multiple falls over the years, resulting in broken wrists, a fractured shoulder, head injuries, and even broken teeth. At her age, she simply cannot afford another serious fall. Like many seniors, she struggles with low muscle mass, weak hands and legs, fragile bones, and chronic aches and pains. But doing…

When “Can’t Focus” Turned Out to Be Something Beautiful

When my second daughter, Sherilyn, was younger, she was full of energy—almost like there was a motor inside her that never switched off. She couldn’t sit still for long, her attention in class wandered easily, and she talked non-stop. Even when she was sitting or walking, her hands were always moving, touching, fidgeting. At that…

Love Baked Into Every Meal

Today, Mum skipped her usual morning walk and spent almost the entire day in the kitchen — from morning right through the afternoon. And honestly, the kitchen smelled like pure comfort and love all day long. First, she made me a double chocolate keto mug cake using coconut flour, an egg, unsweetened cocoa powder, and…

The Days I Once Wished Away

Every day, my Google Photos on my laptop pops up memories from 1, 2, 3 years ago and beyond. Today, photos of my daughters from May 2020 appeared — right in the middle of the Covid lockdowns. Looking at those photos made me a little emo. Back then, all I wished for was for the…

Grateful for Good Bosses and Happy Workplaces

My 3 daughters have all worked part-time at a cafe in our neighbourhood in KL. Sherilyn started there at 16, working weekends while studying, to partially fund her multiple dance classes. Then Alycia followed suit, though she has since stopped after starting her full-time job. Recently, Cass joined the team too. I told Cass that…

Dad’s Homecooked Dishes

Tonight’s spread: stir-fried bell peppers with fish cake, stir-fried chicken with ginger, garlic, big onions, soy sauce and Chinese cooking wine, pumpkin + corn kernel + chicken feet soup, air-fried small fish, and black rice with basmati rice. Simple, wholesome, comforting and so yummy. Best part? Probably less than RM30 to feed the 3 of…

The Funny Thing About Letting Go

It’s funny how after living away from my daughters, I somehow became even closer to them — especially to Cass, my youngest. Now, every time we meet, we have endless things to talk about, almost like two best friends catching up after not seeing each other for ages. Yesterday in KL, we talked non-stop, even…

A Day Trip, A Proud Moment, and A Messy Welcome Home

Today, I made a day trip to KL for my youngest daughter Cass’s SPM award ceremony. Proud mama moment? Absolutely. But the journey? Let’s just say the universe had jokes. It started with a 5am train. I’ve never taken such an early train in my entire life. Waking up at 2.10am sounded like a terrible…

My Protein Breakfast

Not consuming enough protein can lead to several health issues, especially for women over 50. Some common signs of insufficient protein intake include fatigue and weakness, muscle loss and decreased strength, brittle hair and nails, excessive hair fall, dry and thinning skin, and a weakened immune system. That is why it’s important to include enough…

Stretch Mark Creams Comparison: What Actually Matters for Pregnancy & Postpartum Skin Beyond Moisturizing

For years, stretch mark care was mostly centered around one idea: moisturizing stretched skin. Rich body butters, belly oils, and heavy creams dominated the category, all promising softer, smoother, more comfortable skin during pregnancy. But the category has been evolving quickly. Today, more consumers are looking beyond hydration alone and paying closer attention to elasticity…

Mother’s Day 2026

This morning, my mum made a rich and delicious chocolate mug cake using the microwave oven. Preparation took only about 15 minutes, and the baking time was just 90 seconds. It turned out so moist, chocolaty, and incredibly good. That was her little Mother’s Day gift to me. 🥰 Later at around 2pm, Alycia, who…

Faith, Fashion, and Everyday Inspiration

What we wear can reflect our personality, lifestyle and faith. Some Christians who have strong faith and belief like to wear Christian clothes as a way to express their love for Jesus, their saviour.  Modern Christian clothing is fashionable and when paired with the right accessories, a touch of makeup and matching shoes, can be…