My Tea Of The Day is a beautiful blend of chrysanthemum buds, osmanthus flowers, blue pea flowers from our garden, red dates, and goji berries, all gently simmered in my new glass kettle. Dried flowers, herbs, red dates, and goji berries taste so much better when they’re briefly boiled rather than simply steeped in hot…
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Grateful for the Little Things
Yesterday, Mum and I had our Zumba class at 6.30pm, which meant we had to eat an early dinner. Dad, being the super caring dad that he is, cooked a big pot of porridge for us so we could eat it for both lunch and dinner. His porridge is always incredibly delicious and packed with…
Durian Season Finale Breakfast Plate
Wow… ChatGPT just blew my mind! 🤯 I simply described what I had for breakfast today, and ChatGPT generated this beautiful poster for me! 😍 I didn’t upload a food photo or give it any design instructions. All I did was describe my breakfast, and it created this magazine-style image complete with the food, layout,…
Delicious Curry Noodles and Lam Mee at Restoran & Kafe New Weng Fatt, Ipoh Garden South
After the gym today, Mum and I headed to our favourite kopitiam for brunch. ❤️ Mum ordered her favourite Lam Mee again, while I had curry “noodles” without the noodles. 😄 My keto version was loaded with chicken, roast pork, char siu and extra crunchy bean sprouts. I paired my meal with a warm, unsweetened…
The Weights Don’t Get Lighter — You Get Stronger
A friend recently asked me if lifting dumbbells, kettlebells, and resistance bands is easy because, in my workout videos, it looks effortless. The truth is, it isn’t easy at all. Even lifting a pair of 3kg dumbbells (6kg in total) while doing lunges, squats, shoulder presses, or arm raises takes a surprising amount of effort….
My High Protein Breakfast
My breakfast today. 😊 Two soft-boiled eggs topped with crispy meat floss, chickpeas with melted butter, and half a steamed sweet potato with grass-fed butter. A simple breakfast that’s high in protein, packed with nutrients, and keeps me feeling full and satisfied for longer. Lately, I’ve been trying to cut back on bread, refined carbs,…
A Heartwarming Evening of Reconnecting
Last night, my parents and I attended a fundraising dinner organised by the Living Faith Methodist Church, Ipoh, thanks to three complimentary tickets from one of Mum’s former students. Mum was only 18 when she taught this lovely lady, who was just 10 years old at the time. More than six decades later, they’ve remained…
Strength Training At 53, With My 80-YO Mum
My 80-year-old mum has suffered multiple falls over the years, resulting in broken wrists, a fractured shoulder, head injuries, and even broken teeth. At her age, she simply cannot afford another serious fall. Like many seniors, she struggles with low muscle mass, weak hands and legs, fragile bones, and chronic aches and pains. But doing…
Raising a Child with Health Challenges: Love, Fear, Freedom and Letting Go
Of my three daughters, I am closest to my youngest. Perhaps it is because of everything we have gone through together since the day she was born. Because of her health issues, I was fiercely protective of her. I breastfed her until she was over three years old, and much of my life revolved around…
When “Can’t Focus” Turned Out to Be Something Beautiful
When my second daughter, Sherilyn, was younger, she was full of energy—almost like there was a motor inside her that never switched off. She couldn’t sit still for long, her attention in class wandered easily, and she talked non-stop. Even when she was sitting or walking, her hands were always moving, touching, fidgeting. At that…
Love Baked Into Every Meal
Today, Mum skipped her usual morning walk and spent almost the entire day in the kitchen — from morning right through the afternoon. And honestly, the kitchen smelled like pure comfort and love all day long. First, she made me a double chocolate keto mug cake using coconut flour, an egg, unsweetened cocoa powder, and…
The Days I Once Wished Away
Every day, my Google Photos on my laptop pops up memories from 1, 2, 3 years ago and beyond. Today, photos of my daughters from May 2020 appeared — right in the middle of the Covid lockdowns. Looking at those photos made me a little emo. Back then, all I wished for was for the…
Grateful for Good Bosses and Happy Workplaces
My 3 daughters have all worked part-time at a cafe in our neighbourhood in KL. Sherilyn started there at 16, working weekends while studying, to partially fund her multiple dance classes. Then Alycia followed suit, though she has since stopped after starting her full-time job. Recently, Cass joined the team too. I told Cass that…
Dad’s Homecooked Dishes
Tonight’s spread: stir-fried bell peppers with fish cake, stir-fried chicken with ginger, garlic, big onions, soy sauce and Chinese cooking wine, pumpkin + corn kernel + chicken feet soup, air-fried small fish, and black rice with basmati rice. Simple, wholesome, comforting and so yummy. Best part? Probably less than RM30 to feed the 3 of…
The Funny Thing About Letting Go
It’s funny how after living away from my daughters, I somehow became even closer to them — especially to Cass, my youngest. Now, every time we meet, we have endless things to talk about, almost like two best friends catching up after not seeing each other for ages. Yesterday in KL, we talked non-stop, even…
A Day Trip, A Proud Moment, and A Messy Welcome Home
Today, I made a day trip to KL for my youngest daughter Cass’s SPM award ceremony. Proud mama moment? Absolutely. But the journey? Let’s just say the universe had jokes. It started with a 5am train. I’ve never taken such an early train in my entire life. Waking up at 2.10am sounded like a terrible…

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