The Midnight Mechanic


If you’re a parent of a teenager, especially one in the thick of major exams, you know the drill. The house becomes a backdrop to their intense, often messy, always exhausting routine. Chores fall by the wayside, sleep schedules invert, and you learn to appreciate the rare sight of a cleaned plate left in the sink.

Last night, Cass gave me one of those rare, unscripted moments of pride that make all the frustration worthwhile. It started like many other nights. The clock had ticked past 11, and Cass stumbled in from the skating rink, her body buzzing with the exhaustion that comes from five hours of practice. And, as always, she was ravenous. While the rest of the house slept, the kitchen became her late-night diner. She cooked curry instant noodles and air-fried some salmon belly. A post-feast craving was satisfied by the fruit tarts and cake lurking in the fridge—a true champion’s meal.
Then, something shifted.

In the still, quiet magic of the night, a strange peace settled over her. For a kid who has elevated “I’m busy with SPM revision” to an art form for avoiding housework, what happened next was nothing short of a miracle. She got the urge to clean. She tidied her cooking mess. Wiped the counters. And then, she noticed it: one of the kitchen LED lights was out, casting a small shadow over her midnight domain.

This is where the story goes from “pleasant surprise” to “I am beaming.” She didn’t sigh and leave it for me in the morning. She didn’t call for help. She went to the cupboard, found the new light bulbs, and decided to fix it herself.

Let me be clear: No one ever taught her how to do this.

She dragged a chair, climbed up, and figured out how to unscrew the screws holding the glass plate in place. She carefully twisted out the faulty bulb, replaced it with a new one, and secured the whole assembly back together. All by herself. In the middle of the night.

When I heard about it the next morning, I was overwhelmed with pride. “Cass, I’m so proud of you! You see? You can help out more often!” I exclaimed, perhaps a little too hopefully. Her response was pure, unfiltered teenager. “I only have the motivation to do stuff like that in the wee hours of the night when everyone is asleep and it’s silent.”

And you know what? I get it. Her world has been turned upside down by SPM. She’s become a night owl, napping during the day after school, finding her focus and energy when the world is dark and quiet. The constant pressure and busy days don’t leave room for mundane tasks like changing light bulbs. But the silence of the night? That’s her realm. It offers a sense of control and calm that daylight, with all its demands, simply cannot.

So, while I might not suddenly have a daytime chore champion on my hands, I learned something valuable. Our kids are capable of so much more than we sometimes see. Their independence doesn’t always appear on our schedule. Sometimes, it sparks to life at midnight, fueled by instant noodles and the quiet confidence that comes from solving a problem all by themselves.

That little LED light isn’t the only thing that’s shining a bit brighter today.

The light bulb that Cass single-handedly replaced in the wee hours of today.

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  1. Wow, what Cass did is truly commendable! Now you can rest assured that she has grown into an independent individual.

    1. Yes! Today I treated her to a cup of Luckin coffee (discounted when we downloaded the app) to encourage her to give me more pleasant surprises! 😀

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